The Language of Licks

There’s a particular kind of morning greeting I’ve come to treasure — the soft thud of paws on the floor, the click of nails against tile, and then Aryn and Reubyn arriving at my side for their good-morning licks.

It’s become such a fixture of my days that I started wondering: what is it, exactly, that my two retired champions are trying to tell me?

Turns out, quite a lot.It starts with mothers and pups. Long before Aryn and Reubyn ever met me, they knew the language of the tongue from their earliest days — mother dogs lick their newborns to clean them, soothe them, and welcome them into the world. When my dogs lick my hand or my cheek, some part of that ancient tenderness is still there. It’s not a stretch to think that in their own way, they’re folding me into the same instinct that once cared for them. It’s affection, plain and simple. Licking releases endorphins in dogs — the same feel-good chemicals we get from a hug or a hand held. When Aryn leans in for a lick, she isn’t just marking a habit; she’s choosing closeness. Reubyn, ever the gentleman of the two, seems to save his licks for the quiet moments, when it’s just us and no distractions. I like to think that’s its own kind of loyalty.It’s curiosity too.

Dogs experience so much of the world through taste and scent, and human skin is a map of everywhere we’ve been and everything we’ve touched. A lick is, in part, an investigation — where has she been today, what has she carried home with her.

And sometimes, it’s simply a bid for attention. I won’t pretend I haven’t laughed, cooed, and reached right back every single time either of them has come in for a lick. They’ve learned, as dogs do, that it works. A lick is a question, and my response is the answer they were hoping for.

There’s an old instinct buried in there too — a trace of wolf pups licking the mouths of adults, once a signal of trust and a request to be fed.

Aryn and Reubyn are generations removed from that world, retired champions living a quiet life with me now, but the gesture remains, softened into something closer to a greeting than a plea.

What I’ve come to believe, watching these two through the years, is that a lick is rarely just a lick. It’s memory, it’s chemistry, it’s trust — and in Aryn and Reubyn’s case, it’s also just them, telling me in the only language fully theirs that I am home to them, the way they are home to me.

I find something quietly sacred in that. We’re told to love one another the way we’ve been loved — and every morning, before I’ve even had my coffee, two small hairless dogs remind me exactly what that looks like.

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I’m Vicki, the creator and author behind this blog. I’m a minimalist and simple living enthusiast who has dedicated her life to living with less and finding joy in the simple things.